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ByQuits Sabio

Marriage, the display of Christ’s union with the Church

We live in times where pervertion of marriage is rampant. Love is reduced to mere feelings and unabated sexual intercourse, both inside of marriage and outside of marriage. The concept of a covenant love is foreign to most of the world, and even within the so called evangelical church. No wonder that relationships are too shallow and can’t withstand great trials. Instead, in just a whim, marriages are broken and their main reason was “irreconcilable differences”. Here are some pratical pointers to help couples strengthen their marriages and also the rest to have a high view of biblical marriage and covenant love.

1.Wife…

  • Submission of wife to her husband is not a blind submission. Submission to your husband is likened only to the submission of the church to Christ. Take note of that little word “as”. It doesn’t mean that they are the same in all respect. Your husband is not Christ. Your husband is not infallible. He is a sinner like you. Which also means, patience towards your spouse is necessary. If your husband is asking you to do something that is against the head of the church, our Lord Jesus Christ, obey Jesus without usurping your husband’s authority. With gentleness and patience, tell him that you belong to Christ ultimately, and not to him.
  • Our body parts follow what our heads will. It is not the hand that dictates to the head to move. It is the other way around. However, when a body part is not functioning the way it should be, it means one of two things, either the head is not functioning right or it’s the body that is not functioning right.
  • Submit to your husband because the head saves the body. The head will tell the body if the water is hot or the weather is cold. So long as your husband functions the way he should be by God’s design, follow him in everything.
  • Christ’s Church will persevere to the end, so should you also wives, persevere with your husbands.

Arcing

2.Husband…

  • Love your wife in such a way that she will be sanctified, without blemish, taken care of, just as Christ loved the church.
  • A biblical and right way of loving ourselves is by loving others
  • Christ loved his body, and the members of his body are those who are united with him. Husband love your wife because she is your body as she is united with you.
  • Christ will never leave nor forsake his church, so should we husbands to our wives.

3.Marriage is momentary, Christ and the Church is not

  • Marriage is likened unto Christ and his church not the other way around.
  • Distortion of marriage is an evidence of a distorted view of creation and the Gospel(new creation).
  • Christ dying for his church is not an after thought in the mind of God.

    Devotion
    Loving our own bodies is not a sin in of itself. Neither loving one’s own life. In fact the scripture assumes that we do love our lives and bodies. It doesn’t command us to love ourselves(because we’re doing this already), nor does the scripture forbids it. Loving one’s life and body is not the same as selfishness. It is self-love apart from loving God first and loving others is selfishness. When Christ said in John 12:25 “Whoever loves his life loses it, and whoever hates his life in this world will keep it for eternal life.”, he is not saying not to love your life at all, but that we should not love our lives the way the world does. The reason I say that is because of the result and motivation for not loving our lives in this world, namely eternal life. Is wanting eternal life not loving one’s life? In other words, we’re just merely exchanging it for something better. So when the scripture said that we should love one another as we love ourselves, husbands love your wives as you love your own bodies, and love is not self seeking, it is not telling us to disregard ourselves, but that we should first and foremost love others without any pretense, not taking advantage of them, not abusing them. Christ does not abuse, mistreat, and hate his own body(the church), so do you of your own body, therefore don’t abuse, mistreat and hate others, but instead love them.

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